In Memory of

Joyce

L.

Lindsley
From
William Johnston
Date
Friday, December 30, 2022
Message
Dear Mike and Janice, We cannot begin to imagine your grief at your dear mother's unexpected trip to heaven. We have so many happy memories of the years we spent together hanging out and having fun. Our families, named by your mom, "The Wat-Li-Johns," will forever have a special place in our hearts, as will she. We are so very sorry we couldn't be there in person at her service. When you are in the area, please consider us family and visit. We have sent a donation to the Central Square Music Boosters in her memory. With our love and deepest sympathy, Bill and Cam
From
Linda Baldwin-House
Date
Monday, December 12, 2022
Message
I am so sad to hear of Joycie’s passing. Growing up 2 doors down on Fulton St, my favorite memories were of warm summer days with our windows open listening to her sing at the top of her lungs! No matter where I ran into her or how long it had been, she would have that welcoming smile that felt like a hug - always asking how all my brothers and sisters were doing and then tell me all about her latest adventure or newest project! I love reading all the wonderful thoughts everyone has shared, they truly tell a story of a life well lived. Love always my friend, Linda Baldwin House
From
Daniel S. Schroth
Date
Friday, December 09, 2022
Message
My condolences to Mike and Janice and all of Joyce's family. I worked with Joyce for many years at Millard Hawk Junior High school and in the new CSMS middle school. We shared many concerts, talks, teaching, All County festivals, and students. Joyce was a great colleage and friend while working together. One unique memory was when we stopped a possible fire at Millard Hawk on the stage. I had a lot of fun as well. I will miss you Joyce, but was glad to have shared music and teaching with you. Dan Schroth
From
Christine McArdell Foote
Date
Friday, December 09, 2022
Message
Mrs. Lindsey was such a beloved teacher and cared so much for her students. I could be a handful in middle school. I was part of her band and also jazz band after school. The following story is a favorite memory in our family that we still laugh about today- and I’m 47. I was in jazz band as a middle school student and decided I wanted to quit so I could just laze around at home after school. I knew Mrs. L wouldn’t let me go easily; so I concocted a plan. I went in the next day and told her that my mom was making me quit because I had chores to do. I laid it on real thick and I could see Mrs. Lindsey’s face getting more concerned and frustrated. She was buying it! My plan was working! What I didn’t count on was her calling my mother, concerned for me. She was ready to fight for me. She asked my mother why she made me do so much housework and tried to impress upon her the importance of music in a child’s life. That’s when my mom informed her that I actually watched tv after school and ate chips. I believe Mrs. Lindsley said, “Why that little stinker!” The next day I came into school, proud that my plan was coming off without a hitch. I went through band, dreaming of the Doritos waiting for me after school. As I went to leave, Mrs. L said, “oh, Christine! Wait! Great news. I spoke with your mom and she agreed to let you stay for jazz!” A thrill of fear went down my spine. I remember the amused twinkle in her eye as she watched me process everything. I stayed for jazz- then went home. My mom never said a word about the incident all evening. It was agonizing. Time for bed. Looks like mom's going to let this go. “Oh Chris, before you go to bed, I want you to know that all that housework you were supposed to do tonight was moved to Saturday,”. Remembering your mom with love always. ♥️
From
Cindy Schantz and Bruce
Date
Thursday, December 08, 2022
Message
My dear Joyce will be so missed. Just saw you last week at Cole Elementary, when we again talked about our children and grandchildren. You were so great with Bruce during his music times in elementary and middle school. I remember the days in Cleveland with you and your partner on the bike built for two! OMG so many fun filled memories. Your kindness will be with us forever my friend. Rest in peace. Not sure you will ever stop!!
From
Kate
Date
Thursday, December 08, 2022
Message
I am so sorry for your loss. Joyce was so full of love and light. Her energy was unmatched and her love and dedication for teaching music was unparalleled. The world lost one of it’s great souls and she will be sorely missed. My love and prayers go out to you and your family. A student and friend, Kate Walsh
From
Nancy Congdon
Date
Thursday, December 08, 2022
Message
Dear Family and Friends, Joyce was a fantastic teacher. I student taught under her in the Fall of 1981. We dressed as the Blues Brothers and led the middle school band in the Halloween parade. What a riot! I learned so much from her. She will be greatly missed.
From
Cassie and Ralph Richmond
Date
Thursday, December 08, 2022
Message
It is with sadness that we write to say goodby to Joyce. She was a wonderful friend, fellow teacher, and fellow miniaturist. Her enthusiasm for life and all activities will be greatly missed. Heaven has received a real gift. Rest in peace, Joyce.
From
Anonymous
Date
Thursday, December 08, 2022
Message
From
Allison Sulock
Date
Thursday, December 08, 2022
Message
One of the most influential teachers throughout my life has been the universally beloved Mrs. Lindsley. With an open heart, she helped foster my love of music and helped so much with affordable (or free in our times of need) private lessons. She gently pushed me as a flutist enough that I went from a wee shy girl in class to first chair / all-state / all-county / perfect score in the largest solo competition in NY, while also allowing my quirky wants to come through as I got into playing non-classical styles- in school / all-county jazz bands and jamming with rock groups in local bars & sometimes even on the radio with local rock bands. She is the main reason I got my music education degree (though I could never settle down enough to utilize it in a proper school setting). Mrs. Lindsley always taught with love, and going to her lessons felt like being home, or having a nice afternoon with a beloved friend. My love goes out to her family & all who knew her. 💙🎶💙
From
Laurie Turnbull Hollis
Date
Thursday, December 08, 2022
Message
It was my pleasure to get to know Joyce when she bought my parents home, the 1850 house as she called it. It made my heart happy to know how much she loved our old home (and it looks great now!) A short time later we connected again through the Fort Brewerton Historical Society. Just a couple weeks ago she organize some of her music studens to play at our Christmas Open House . She was so dedicated to the Brewerton community. We will miss her! Peace be with her and her family.
From
Love, Jake and Andrea
Date
Wednesday, December 07, 2022
Message
Please accept our most heartfelt sympathies for your loss.. Our thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.
From
Julie Peterson
Date
Wednesday, December 07, 2022
Message
So sad to hear of Joyce’s passing. She welcomed my kids and I to this neighborhood in 2011. She hired my kids to do yard work & various chores. After they left for college she hired other kids to take over, but always asked how mine were doing. I will miss our chats in the driveway catching up with each other. Her greatest joy these last few years were her grandchildren- her face lit up when she talked about them. Rest in peace Joyce. Julie Peterson
From
Debra Conto
Date
Wednesday, December 07, 2022
Message
Well Joyce I will say it no one else does. To me your not gone. Maybe I don't see you cutting the bushes or trees or saying Debbie Deb "what ya doing girl". But I know your still here, never to be gone. We have been good friends, neighbors since 94 so as we also say hold that thought I will be right back. I told you then as I tell it now your in my heart forever. My support, and heartfelt love and gratitude to your children, grand children . I know the loss is difficult for them but I hope I can keep your memory alive everyday. It was your kindness to myself , Angelia that will stick with us forever. No one will ever replace your grace,educated words, or your friendship. Your journey to trim the bushes , to teach the music, to let God take you to that new journey in heaven doesn't mean your gone. I look at your house I see you everywhere. The beauty of you and your wisdom shows very much in our hearts and in Brewerton. As soon as I hear music I know your watching. Deb Conto
From
With love, Janet, Scott, Darlene, Rian and Evelin
Date
Wednesday, December 07, 2022
Message
Joyce was truly one of the most kind hearted and authentic people we had the chance to share time with. God has gained an angel, we will miss her.
From
Richard & Jean Cisar
Date
Wednesday, December 07, 2022
Message
Oh Joyce we are missing you at our Monday music lesson. Joyce taught my daughter piano to concert level on NYSSMA. She also played piano at her wedding. Fast forward a few years and she was working with two of our grandaughters on piano, flute, drums and vocals. When my wife Jean decideled that I needed to llearn to play an instrument of course she called Joyce. Two weeks ago after more than 2 years of lessons she finally told me I was no longer a beginner. Joyce was always quick to encourage. What a treasure to the local community.
From
Anonymous
Date
Wednesday, December 07, 2022
Message
Our deepest sympathy during this difficult time. We will miss her. Love her favorite trumpet player Rowan Prichard and family.
From
Vanessa Lalley
Date
Wednesday, December 07, 2022
Message
Mrs. Lindsley gave the gift of music to all the children she taught and those just in her presence. She has left a legacy for her students and community. Her Christmas display is always perfect. Her warmth and kindness will be missed.
From
Jim, Emily, Josh and Jen Nalle
Date
Tuesday, December 06, 2022
Message
Our condolences.
From
Theresa Besanson
Date
Tuesday, December 06, 2022
Message
Your mom taught my children and then when she subbed she taught my grandson. Very talented and caring woman. She gave her all to every child she taught. I had the pleasure of working with her through the years. She will be missed by many. May the memories you have made through the years help you through this difficult time. Prayers for the family and friends.
From
Tom Barry
Date
Tuesday, December 06, 2022
Message
Miss Wickham as I new her way back in the day was amazing . She taught music at A.A. Cole and Her brother jerry taught me auto systems at Oswego county B.O.C.E.S. . Great teachers and great people . I have fond memories and like everyone is saying . “ That smile “
From
Simmone Pone
Date
Tuesday, December 06, 2022
Message
Oh Joyce!!! How I will miss our “ catch-ups” in the halls of Brewerton El when you came to sub! I loved seeing your name on our morning sub list- I’d make it my business to stop by first thing in the morning- you had a way of jump starting my days in a different way. Whether it be a story if your latest travels, your children or your grandchildren, I knew I’d leave feeling uplifted by your spunky attitude and gracious spirit! I’ll never forget feeling so welcomed at lessons with Daniel and Jordan, and how hard you worked with Daniel for NYSMA. You were a miracle worker, such a talented teacher with a humbleness that is so very hard to find. I will miss your smile, your laugh and beautiful spirit. “You get me Simmone”… yes Joyce, I do, and we wouldn’t want you any other way. God speed sweet soul.
From
The Pounds Family
Date
Tuesday, December 06, 2022
Message
Joyce was a beautiful soul. She welcomed our family to Brewerton over 15 years ago when we moved in across the street. It makes me smile as I think of all the times we would yell across Bartel just to say hello over the traffic noise. She meticulously maintained her property and ALWAYS kept that fence painted and the bushes trimmed; we had no choice but to keep up! Winter was no exception as she always had a beautiful Christmas light display this time of year. My condolences to her family - she spoke very fondly of her children and grand children. Joyce - You will be missed.
From
Pastor Jack Keating
Date
Tuesday, December 06, 2022
Message
Joyce was a true gift from God to her family, friends and community. As my first church organist, she radiated God’s love wherever she went. We are all better for knowing her and her sharing of her gifts with us. Many prayers for Mike, Janice and all of her family and friends!
From
Patricia Urban
Date
Tuesday, December 06, 2022
Message
I am so sorry for your loss. She was a true friend for many years. Joyce was the first person I met when I joined Central Square School District and we have been friends ever since. She had an infectious smile and laugh about her. You always felt comfortable and loved when you were with Joyce. I always looked forward to our luncheons together catching up on family news and pictures of grandchildren. She will be truly missed. Pat and Dave Urban
From
Karen, Mike Pullmain, David & Georgia Graham
Date
Tuesday, December 06, 2022
Message
We were so blessed to have known Joyce and family! We have so many happy memories with her. She will forever be in our hearts!
From
Lisa Thurston-Bean
Date
Tuesday, December 06, 2022
Message
I’m so sorry for your loss. She was a great music teacher. Her sprint and friendship got me thru a few yrs at the jr high. Even after school she always wanted to know how I was doing. I remember when I stop in at school with my first baby and she was so surprised. She was in a class and she held the baby and taught at the same time. She was a huge light for me in my teen yrs and I hope to see her when it’s my time to go. ❤️🙏
From
Wendy (Corrice) Wilde
Date
Tuesday, December 06, 2022
Message
Thoughts and prayers at her loss, may she rest in eternal peace. Mrs Lindsley is fondly remembered by me and the many years I spent with her as a music student. She was a patient and kind teacher who made a positive impact on me.
From
Ashlyn, Brenden and Family
Date
Tuesday, December 06, 2022
Message
Wishing you peace to bring comfort, courage to face the days ahead and loving memories to forever hold in your hearts.
From
Matt and Ashlee Motyka
Date
Tuesday, December 06, 2022
Message
As you grieve, know that we are remembering you and honoring the memory of your mother Joyce. May she Rest in Peace.
From
Christine Cadaret Wieczorek
Date
Tuesday, December 06, 2022
Message
Dear Family and Friends of Joyce, I am so very sorry for your loss and pray that you will be comforted by your memories and the care and love of friends and family. Rest in Peace Joyce, you will be missed.
From
Fern M. Lewis
Date
Tuesday, December 06, 2022
Message
So so sorry to hear of Joyce's passing. She was a fabulous teacher devoted to her students who continued to love and support them long after they had left her realm of influence. She was always interested in their lives and their successes. She would send copies of music with me that she thought Nicole would like years after being her teacher and never forgot to ask ab out her whenever we met. She was wise to tell me when she could no long challenge Nicole and saw to it she had a superior private tutor for which I will be eternally grateful. As for friendship...no one could ask for a better friend. She was loyal and just a barrel of laughs. Inquisitive!!! She had to look behind every door and explore every road which often made us late for our appointed time with tour guides. There was never a down moment with her. Once we were in Russia and I looked out of the ship's balcony to see our tour bus at the dock. I said never mind the make up just throw on some clothes and let us go. We made it! Last on the bus and low and behold in her bag....snack for the breakfast we had missed. She always had her big purse with her which held what ever we might need. She even carried it along the Great Wall of Chine. As she trudge with the bag I remember saying, "Joyce, that bag really has to go!" I shall miss you my dear friend. God be with you.
From
Kathy and Michael Cunningham
Date
Tuesday, December 06, 2022
Message
We are so very sorry to hear of Joyce's passing. I have such wonderful, fond memories of Joyce during my years at Brewerton Elementary. She was always supportive, friendly, and wore a constant smile! She will be greatly missed by the Brewerton community. Our thought and prayers go out to the entire Lindsley family...with Love, Kathy and Mike Cunningham
From
Sara, Sawyer and Max Mitchell-Gosselin
Date
Tuesday, December 06, 2022
Message
My family grew up with Mrs. Lindsley -- She's impacted my kids as well as so many others. Her passion for music and education was contagious, and I'm so grateful for the time we had with her. Sending much love and prayers for this great loss.
From
Kathy Klotz LaVigne
Date
Tuesday, December 06, 2022
Message
So sorry to hear of Joyces' passing. Many fond memories of our childhood on Fulton Street. Thoughts and prayers to her family.
From
Ziah Colon
Date
Tuesday, December 06, 2022
Message
My thoughts and heartfelt prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time. Your mother will be in your heart always. Sending thoughts of love and light... Sincere condolences, Ziah Colon
From
Pearl Horn
Date
Tuesday, December 06, 2022
Message
My thoughts and prayers are with the family. Joyce was such a wonderful person, we will all miss her. She could always make you smile.
From
Ellen and Doug
Date
Tuesday, December 06, 2022
Message
Hard to believe this shining light has gone, she was so beloved in our community. RIP Joyce.
From
Debbie Owens
Date
Tuesday, December 06, 2022
Message
Such sad news about this dynamic lady. Joyce displayed a true love of teaching and it was always a pleasure to be greeted by her smile and cheery words. You will find peace in your wonderful memories of your mom. I will find peace in my memories of her contribution to education and her love of the children she taught. RIP dear friend.
From
Nancy Shualy
Date
Tuesday, December 06, 2022
Message
Janice and family, This is a beautiful tribute to a very special person who clearly touched many throughout her life. Wishing you strength and the comfort of memory and all of Joyce’s legacy during this sad time.
From
The Alonzo family
Date
Tuesday, December 06, 2022
Message
The most wonderful person we ever met. We will miss you so much Joyce!! Thank you for being so nice to us always. We love you .
From
Patricia Carlin
Date
Tuesday, December 06, 2022
Message
Joyce and I worked together for many years at Fort Brewerton Historical Society where we became friends. We had wonderful times decorating for our Christmas open house and all of our activities. We enjoyed our 2 hour lunches and swimming in her pool. Her love of local history and music was such a wonderful part of her personality. Everyone who knew her loved her.
From
Love, the Cantwell family
Date
Monday, December 05, 2022
Message
Your family is in our thoughts and prayers. We are always here for you.
From
Harter Funeral Home, Inc.
Date
Monday, December 05, 2022
Message
The Harter Funeral Home Family would like to offer our most heartfelt condolences.